My son wants to go to a party

My son wants to go to a party

Julito jr. would be 14 years old today and he was asking me if he could go to a party were no parents would be. I was thinking if leting him to go or not. I would have a big conversation with him saying him that he doesnt have to grab any beer, cigarretes or any drinks or either pills and that this was going to be the try to him if he is already mature to alone in a party. I would tell him this because he had never be alone in a party and the city is not a good place for adolescent because they are not mature to solve problems and to not get into big problems.This would make me a authoritative parent and a permissive parent.

http://parenting.families.com/blog/permissive-parenting-an-overview